How do they actually feel about me?
The most asked question in tarot, and the one most readings answer dishonestly. Here is what this one will actually do with it.
Pull a card on thisWhy you are asking
Usually this question arrives when the evidence is mixed: warm one week, distant the next. The uncertainty is the problem more than the answer is, and a reading that handed you a verdict would only move the uncertainty somewhere else.
No reader knows another person's mind
Not this one, not a human one. What a reading can work with is your read of the situation — which is more information than it sounds, because you have been watching and you already have a sense you may not have said out loud.
Questions that can actually be answered
- What am I not letting myself notice here?
- What would I do if I assumed the warm version was true?
- Am I waiting for certainty before I act?
Any of these can go straight into the field, or start from Love and change one to fit.
Asking about one person?
Someone specific has questions written for an ex, a partner or someone new — and never asks for a name.
Questions people ask
- Can tarot tell me how someone feels about me?
- It cannot know, and this reader will say so plainly rather than perform an answer. What it reads is your sense of the situation and what you might be avoiding in it.
- Is that not a cop-out?
- It would be, if it stopped there. It does not: after saying what it cannot know, the reading commits to what the card says about the position you are in.
- Do I need to give their name?
- No, and please do not. Choosing a relationship — my ex, someone new, my partner — gives the reading everything it uses.